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Imagine having both, mother and father wound . You’ve won the lottery 😂😂 of course I’m laughing just to make it more easier because, needless to say, I’ve got both 😅

You who are reading this, may you be delivered of every one of your traumas, in the name of Jesus Christ. AMEN 🙏

This resonated so much with me. I knew I had inner child problems/traumas,but never knew it was a mother wound. My mother was and still isn't a good nurturer. I've had so many times where I've needed a loving person like my mom by my side and she wasn't there. She never believed me when her bf sexually assaulted me and chose him over me. We still have a connection but very distant.

These people are family. I have had to remove myself to protect myself. I am overwhelmed by guilt but I can't do it anymore. I have a family event coming up and I have so much anxiety around potential conflict.

Terry, first I want you to say thank you for being such a huge help to me and to many. Because of you, I am able to understand myself and understand others. The reason I'm reaching out is because there's an individual in my life that I'm struggling with. Their are so deep in their drug addiction, and it has drawn this person to the point of severe paranoia and makes a lot of indirect comments, and can make myself and everyone around this person very uncomfortable how am I supposed to react to this behavior. Oh, might I add that this person always clams that they study human behavior I feel like that's a scare tactic to make us feel like we should be worried I am at my wits end with this person I don't know what to do anymore

If you have a family, but your husband still show disrespect how do I change that? Leaving? Boundary is there, but unfortunately, financially I can't leave. Then what?

This is so good. Thank you 🙏

This video is such gold... I got to this video from watching your father wound video (also gold,)..both content has been really healing for me.prior. I had never fully acknowledged to myself (forself) the source parent for my wounds this ..it's growth for me.. Not blame only gain.. Love your work Terri Cole.. Sending appriciation from Aotearoa (the indigenous name) aka New Zealand.. Land of the long white cloud 🎉

9:39 😢 There’s nothing you can do.

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Hello mam, I have not been able to sleep since years, I couldn't handle my emotions, took impulsive decisions which led to my spouse giving me a divorce, I ruined my married life, I feel like I am the worst person on earth!

I used to be the one checking; not anymore. I have a very dear cousin, more like a sister, but of late I will call, there’s no answer, nor text. And I know my call went through because of these smart phones. 😊 I would feel dismissed if I felt I was being ignored. The way my parents and siblings would behave. But, now I’m feeling more apathetic; 😐 and for me that’s a strong feeling of confidence.

Like a boss 😎 okay ill stop now.

...I L I T E R A L L Y just told two of my friends in an emergency 'we-need-to-meet-up' meeting, that I don't like being a burden to ppl

My husband is a covert narc, he is cheating on me right now with a homeless alcoholic and now they are living together.

My mom only shows me "love" when I don't feel good. When I am well, she only shows me hate.. why was I born?

I have spent my whole life surrounded by narcissists. 60 years. I only learned about narcissism a few years ago. Thank you both for work❤

Ive never subscribed to a channel after 1 video let alone 1 single short... ❤

Terri, I wish that you tied PTSD and nervous system dysregulation (a person who is on "high alert" or where their body is stuck in "survival mode") to having defensive behavior. It is not that easy to "take inventory" when something triggers that survival mechanism and I find for myself that my "reaction" is almost automatic. (Something I am working on). But it is HARD!!!! My body sends signals to my brain that I have to fight or flee and before I know it I have no idea even what I am saying. I am very aware when this happens. If my front brain was driving the car I am certain I could make better choices, but until I get that automatic survival response in check I almost feel like a slave to stored energetic memory and have a difficult time "responding"-vs- reacting. Can you do a video on this? For example, defensiveness related to narcissistic abuse and mother wounds and how to help in this area? THANK YOU!

My single mother was so transactional that she would sing that Janet Jackson song “What have you done for me lately?” Whenever we asked for anything. 😂

Realised today the coach said “stop! The timer has gone” and I responded with “we didn’t hear it”. Defensive and it felt intuitively wrong after.